A Message to Dada

With Phyllis and Muriel’s love and kisses.

Anxious to see Dada and What he may have for them.

No time for letter today.

Glad of yours.

This postcard is addressed to Mr Albany George Finch ℅ Mr Albert Finch at 98 Kings Cross Road, London.

‘Cousin Albert’ Finch and his wife Susan ran the post office at 98 Kings Cross Road. Susan was born Finch too, sister to Albany George. The postcard was posted in Sticklepath, probably at the end of the day, franked 6pm and then travelled to Okehampton where it was franked again at 7.30pm on 16 August 1906. Muriel wasn’t quite two and Phyllis was not yet four years old. It is almost certainly written by their mother, Georgina (nee Ching), wife to Albany, who seems in a rush!

When we think of our ancestors, do we think of them at their age of death? Or perhaps at a particular time associated with a life event or story? Or do we consider all their roles across their lifetime, son, father, friend and so on? In her 80’s Muriel always referred to Albany as ‘my father’ in a rather formal way. I had never before pictured Albany as ‘Dada’.

It feels intrusive to read this intensely personal note, and that sense is not diminished by the 115 years that have passed since it was written.

Then there is that brief message. The children are ‘Anxious to see Dada and What he may have for them’. Do you think this is a veiled instruction reminding him to bring a little something home for his daughters? Or perhaps he often brought something from his travels? As the ‘sales rep’, so to speak, for Finch Bros. Edgetool Makers of Sticklepath he travelled quite extensively in Devon, Cornwall and Somerset.

The postcard tells us that on 16 August 1906 Albany was visiting relatives in the big city. Quite a journey, and for several days it seems. I wonder why he was there? His hosts Albert and Susan were at this address in both the 1901 and 1911 census records, so it was not to assist with a house move. Perhaps Susan was ill or needed his help for another reason? Could it have been a business trip? Perhaps a family matter that Albany preferred to disclose or discuss in person? Or could it have been his faith, his role as a local preacher within the Methodist Church, perhaps a conference that called him to London?

It seems likely he would have travelled by train from Okehampton or possibly Sampford Courtenay station via Exeter to London. Even if he were delivering belongings or collecting tools he would almost certainly have transported them by train.

As usual a small piece of evidence adds to his story but leaves us with more questions than answers! Do please share any other suggestions for his trip.

July 1924 Snap taken when Albany took his two daughters to London, well after both Albert and Susan had died. It will be interesting to see who lived there on the 1921 census when it is released next year.

On this day in 1935…

#52ancestors Week 17 – Favourite Place? Where else but #Sticklepath. #OnePlaceWednesday #OnePlaceStudy

Birthdays are strange things – until we needed to know our birthdate to register for school or claim our pension the specific date was not that important. Genealogists know that, as people often varied their age over the decades of the census. Now however it is firmly part of our identity.

5-5-35 has quite a nice ring to it – easy to remember. That was my Dad’s birthdate, so today would be his birthday. I have therefore. spent some time recalling happy memories. Genealogists eagerly document dates and places, but it is the person we would really like to recapture.

Roger’s home throughout the 80 years of his life was Cleave House in Sticklepath. Initially with his Grandfather Albany Finch and parents, and various other family members over the years.

1939. Roger aged 4 ½ and his sister, with Roy Young evacuee between them. (Dressed up as per first world war).

Shebbear College was his senior school and always meant a lot to him. He remained friends with Gordon Dean (far left), a teacher, Mr Cyril Barfoot, and with Matron (see next image) throughout their lives.

Roger (in shorts) helping to replace the main shaft in the Foundry 1950.
He studied maths at Exeter University, College of the SouthWest, where he met Ann, his future wife. He spent some time in hospital with TB during this time.
They were married in Bristol 1959
By 1961 their family was expanding
And more….
Family life included all the usual celebrations – here a guy prepared for the bonfire in the back yard.
I remember the lupins! The lorry business was run from home. With drivers calling day and night I knew nothing of a 9-5 working day! Home made see-saw in foreground.
Photos can’t capture personality, but Roger liked wordplay, harmless jokes with friends and family. (Poor Mr Cook – always a chef-related comment!)
Roger was interested in black and white photography as a child and young adult, developing his own. He also took all the photos for his catalogues when he started in the hosta business.
They built a National collection and started showing – a steep learning curve to get to the medals.
The coveted Gold Medal at Chelsea. A real team effort too!
He loved to sing from teenager on, whether solo (here accompanied by friend Joanna Young)
or with various choirs, madrigal or singing groups – here Chagford.
He loved a good strong cup of tea (no mugs), and clotted cream (even on cornflakes!)
And could fall asleep anywhere – even on stage.

Ann was his constant companion and love of his life. Here after her MBE award 1986

Golden wedding – they even had an Emerald wedding celebration, 55 years.
There is no doubt that his favourite place was in Sticklepath, probably in the garden of Cleave House with Ann by his side.

#52 Ancestors Week 16: DNA

#DNAday #DNA #Sticklepath #SticklepathOne

Less than a week since I got my DNA results! I have been playing around with them while @patientgenie is patiently taking me through a DNA beginner’s course – two more Tuesdays and I will be an expert – Well OK I will have an idea of the basics! 235 matches 4th cousins or closer on Ancestry. It is a bit mind boggling to say the least! Only 1 cousin I actually have a known connection with so far.

I am hoping this chart is what I am trying to achieve with grouping people – my matches on Chromosome 1 who match each other…. (FTDNA site, the names are repeated across the top and down the side so the grey squares are where the same name is on both. The tick means they match each other as well as me!)

Meanwhile trying to construct a quick and dirty tree as broad and deep and wide as I can. Looking for descendants of direct ancestors siblings is not quite what I am used to. This is definitely a marathon not a sprint, and in this analogy I can hardly walk up the steep learning curve, let alone jog as yet!