Not quite the end of Auntie Kate! #AllAboutThatPlace

On September 17, 2023September 15, 2023 By HelenFinchIn #SticklepathOnePlace1 Comment

Auntie Kate with step daughter Muriel. They lived in the same house for 20 years.

Auntie Kate, memorialised as Kate Finch, died at home on 27th July 1933 after a long illness. There were a lot of people at the funeral, almost 130. This may have partly been a mark of respect for her husband, Albany Finch, J.P. but seems significantly more than at other similar funerals. The side door from the chapel into the Sunday School Room would have been opened as well as the gallery and seating under the gallery which was usually (in living memory) hidden from site.

(Note according to My Wesleyan Methodists Wesleyan bottoms were reckoned to only be 18-20 inches wide when calculating capacity of pews in the 19th century. Not only body size but personal space today means considerably more than 20 inches should be allowed!).

She was buried in Sticklepath Quaker Burying ground. Kezia Huxtable Ching is memorialised simply as Kate Finch with a horizontal granite stone. She is buried close to her Ching relatives and her first husband, William Middle. Albany out-lived her by 12 years but never re-married.

She left £440 7s 10d, a substantial proportion of which was left to Sticklepath Wesleyan Chapel.

So we say good-bye to Auntie Kate as she once was.

Those reading the Obituary below will note she was a gentle personality. Auntie Kate re-born, alter ego of the author, is portrayed rather differently for dramatic effect. She will be appearing on the 5th day of the #AllAboutThatPlace Event, Telling Tales of Sticklepath School at 12 noon BST Tuesday 26th September and available for 2 weeks after. (Full schedule with over 100 ten minute talks and information about how to access the talks can be found in the Guides section of the Facebook group.)

Western Times – Friday 04 August 1933

STICKLEPATH’S LOSS Funeral of Mrs. A. G. Finch, of Cleave House LARGE ATTENDANCE

There was a large gathering of relatives and sympathisers at the funeral Mrs. A. G. Finch, wife of Mr. A. G. Finch, J.P., of Cleave House, Sticklepath, head of the firm of Finch Bros. Deceased was the only surviving daughter of the late Mr. George Ching and Mrs. Ching, of Coombe Head, and she passed away on Thursday week at her residence, after a long illness, patiently borne, aged 72. She was a gentle personality and was highly respected.

The service in the Methodist Chapel was conducted the Rev. W. M. P. Wilkes. B.A., B. D., and the hymn “Tell me the old, old story” (deceased’s choice) was sung, Miss Yeo being at the organ.

The bearers were employees of the firm: Messrs. W. May, W. Rowe, W. Daniels, M. Jury, Horace Mallett and W. Davey.

The immediate mourners were Mr. A. G. Finch and Mrs. C. Bowden (widower and daughter), Mr. James Finch and Mrs. Drew (brother-in-law’and niece), Mr. Thos. Finch and Mrs. Finch (brother and sister-in-law), Mr. George Ching and Mrs.Ching (sister-in-law and nephew), Mr. C. Bowden (nephew), Mr. Ralph Finch and Mrs. Finch (nephew and niece), Miss Rose Ching and Mrs. Ching (niece and sister-in-law), Mrs. Jessie Barron and Miss Barron, (daughter and grandchild).

There was a very large number of wreaths, although deceased’s wish was that no flowers should sent.

Among those attending were Mr. Reg. Harry (Okehampton), Rev. A. C. Northlock (Okehampton), Mr. G. Blatchford (Okehampton), Mr. and Mrs. Collihole (Winkleigh), Mrs. Jones (Chicacott), Mrs. and Miss Colin Brown (Old Meadow), Misses Brock (Belstone), Major Sinclair, ret. (Drakes Acre), Mr. Glandfield (Exbourne), Mr. Bayley, representing bank (Okehampton), Mr. and Mrs. Baker (Halford Manor), Rev. Lister James (Belstone), Mr. A. W. Coles (Okehampton), Mr., Mrs. and Miss Heggadon (Sunnymead), Mr. Raymont (Winkleigh), Mr. W. Avery and Miss Tucker (South Zeal), Mr. S. Perrott (Chagford), Mr. Perkins (Broadley), Mrs. Reddaway, (Reddaway Farm), Miss Seward (Sticklepath), Miss Watson, Erin (Sticklepath), Misses Littlejohns (2) (Okehampton ), Mrs. Jenkins (Sticklepath). Mrs Scaramucci (Ker Janet), Miss Brotherton (Ker Janet), Mr. W. Sampson (Throwleigh), Mr. and Mrs. Jas Wright (Stickle path), Mr. and Mrs. Reg Cook and Mrs Osborn (Sticklepath), Mr. Millington (Sticklcpath), Mr. and Mrs. Bert Gratton (Belstone) Mrs. Gratton (Perryman). Mrs Arscott (Belstone), Mr. Ackford (Belstone) Miss B. Warne (Sticklepath), Mrs May (Bere Alston), Miss Palmer (Moor Farm) Mr. W. Endacott (South Zeal), Mr w Jordan (South Zeal), Mr.S. Earland, jnr (South Zeal), Miss Jackson Holton Cottage), Mr. Jackson (Okehampton). Mr Burgess (Okehampton), Mrs. Chammings (Okehampton), Mr. Allan (Broadley Mr Down (Broadley), Mrs. Simpson Gary (Moor Croft), Mr. Elderton (Sticklepath) Miss Stewart (Sticklepath), Mr Lavis (Southcott), Miss Mesney (Sticklepath) Mr. and Mrs. Sanders (Belstone)Miss Kate Jackman (Chagford), Mrs. Sydney Bowden (Belstone); Mr. and Mrs. A.Bowden , Mrs. Bowden, Miss May Osborn, Mrs Arscott, Mr. Cecil Tucker, Mr. J Lethbridge , Miss Audrey Brown, Mrs.Francis, Mr. Duston, Miss G. Harvey, Miss V Mallett, Mr. and Mrs. C. Mallett, Mr W. Harvey, Miss Rowe, Miss Huxtable. Mrs Ching, Mr. Jack Mallett, Mr. George Hellier and Mr. W. Brook(all of Sticklepath) Mrs. Rowe (Prospect), Mrs. Petherick (The Bungalow), Mrs. Davey (Coombe Head) Miss Nelly Brook (Sticklepath), Mrs Simmons – (Prestacott), Mr. Ewens .(Corscombe Down); Mr. Reg. Eveley, Nurse Gater, Miss White, Mrs. A. Holman, Miss D Yeo Mr. and Mrs. S. Yeo, Mr. W. Bennett junr., Mr. Percy Brook and Mr Steve Daniels (Sticklepath), Mrs. Jeffery (Quarries), Mrs. Friend (East Week), Mr W. Aggett (Poltimore), Mrs. Underhill (Skaigh), Mr. George Hussey (Sticklepath) Mr. J. Newcombe (Sticklepath), Mr Warren (Addiscott), Mr. Norman Bowden (Sticklepath), Mr. Reg. Bennett (Sticklepath) Mr. James Counter (Prospect) Mrs Jasper (Coombe Head), Mrs. Endacott (Coombe Head), Mr. and Mrs. J Cooper (Sticklepath), Mr. Smale (Okehampton), Mr.Syd Mallett (Sticklepath), Mr. J. Standlake (Wood Cottage). Messrs Bowden (Sticklepath), Mrs. Hill (Dry Bridge).

Auntie Kate’s second husband

On September 16, 2023September 18, 2023 By HelenFinchIn #SticklepathOnePlace1 Comment

Stories of the guests at Cleave House and a new husband for Kate.

While Auntie Kate, widow, was working in Cornwall, life continued in Sticklepath much as before.

Her sister Georgina, Mrs Albany Finch, had her hands full with the children and various chapel events.

From Left to right Muriel Finch, Auntie Kate, Mother Georgina (sat) and Phyllis Finch

Phyllis and Muriel, were growing up, fast approaching their teens.

Georgina was still running the guest house at Cleave House. I am sure they could have told some tales of their guests. Being Methodist many of their guests will also have been Methodist, coming to take the Dartmoor air. (Albany was a local preacher for more than 54 years).

Guests – Rev William Cowdell born 14 Dec 1853 Hinckley. Studied Didsbury College. Entered Methodist ministry 1878 – 1919. Address in 1912 was Louth. Rev Walter Lee entered Methodist ministry 1896 – 1941. Having stayed at Cleave House they sent this as thanks. Taken about 1905.

Two boys and their governess were regular guests over the summer. Miss C.R. Martineau brought Colin and Pat Browning, and their dog, from Budleigh Salterton. One Sunday, while they were staying, Albany had taken the little jingle with the rather spirity pony to a preaching engagement. On his return journey there was a tremendous storm and poor Albany arrived home that evening soaking wet. Unfortunately shortly before he arrived home, Cleave House’s substantial flat roof had sprung a leak. Colin and Pat thought it great fun to see water gushing through the ceiling and flooding down the stairs! Georgina was not so pleased. Albany quickly took a poker and made a hole in the ceiling to relieve the pressure and stop the whole ceiling from falling in. The boys enjoyed that too but after the kerfuffle they were soon sent to bed.

Sadly, when Muriel and Phyllis were 12 and 14 years old, their mother Georgina took ill with bronchitis. After a fairly short illness, she died at Cleave House on 15 April 1917, with cerebral haemorrhage the final event.

This must have come as a shock to everyone. Albany, who worked for the Finch Bros. Foundry and went to Cornwall and Somerset regularly selling their Edge Tools, will have found it difficult to manage the two girls. It was also at this time that Albany was confirmed as a new Devon County Justice, announced in The Western Times on 28 April 1917, within 2 weeks of Georgina’s death. This too will have taken up his time.

So it was that on one of his trips to Cornwall, he called on Kate with one thing on his mind. I don’t know if she was expecting it – a proposal of marriage. Kezia, always known as Auntie Kate, became his third wife on 23 Feb 1918. As she was living in Tywardreath, that is where the marriage took place. Albany’s eldest daughter Jessie and her husband Arthur Barron were the witnesses. The marriage certificate says Albany was 54 years old and Kezia, 55 years. (Though their birthdates suggest a larger gap. Kezia was born 6th September 1860, so she was 57. Ages, like spellings of names, were slightly more fluid in those days!).

Albany Finch and Auntie Kate with Phyllis behind and Muriel in front.

Kate moved back to Sticklepath as Mrs Finch and lived in Cleave House.

The following year the Western Times, 9 June 1919, reports the sale of Cleave House, “a villa residence, to Mr. A. G. French, J.P. for £550; Edge Tool factory and two cottages sold to French Brothers for £750”. Clearly French should say Finch. They must have been renting up until this time.

The house had 4 large double bedrooms and a fifth smaller bedroom. Usually these were all occupied by family members or guests. So when Albany’s daughter Muriel and her husband Charlie had a baby it was important to keep the noise to a minimum. Auntie Kate spent many hours walking up and down comforting the baby during the nights, so others could sleep.

Muriel and Charlie with little Miss Ann Bowden

As Muriel said – Auntie Kate was a lovely gentle person, who would do anything for anybody. I feel sure that having not had the opportunity to have children herself she will have relished this chance of family life.

Next… is it the end of Auntie Kate?

Auntie Kate housewife

On September 15, 2023September 18, 2023 By HelenFinchIn #SticklepathOnePlace, Local History1 Comment

Kate continues to tell us about her life: Once I was married it was my job to make our little house into a home and do all the housework. Nice to be working for yourself though, making the choices. We had various tradesmen calling, like Fishy Holman, the fish man. He came twice a week from South Zeal. The butcher never came til late in the day, the midnight butcher we called him!

Then there was Mr Wonnacott’s groceries. He came with a covered wagon, horse drawn of course, with a tank built into the back for Paraffin. My sister Gina made sure I was not to buy that, ‘cos of course her husband Finch sold paraffin, and coal.

The baker, Marks from Okehampton, also came with his big square basket. Ooo such lovely bread, cottage loaves and so on. Sometimes he had a second much shallower oblong wicker basket, with lids that folded over each side, you know. Contained special treats, a jam tart or piece of cake. Wasn’t very often. Course you then you would have to pop down the road to the dairy for half a quarter of clotted cream. William would often give the girls a penny to spend at one of the sweetie shops – several ladies ran a little shop in the village to help make ends meet.

Like Miss Harriet Worden down by the bridge at Waters Meet, and Mrs Ada Tucker up at number one Ska View Cottages.

William loved to be part of any social events. Either in one of the local village halls or related to church or chapel. He even helped with making banners for the church parades. It was a lovely time in my life.

Sticklepath is a pretty village and attracts tourists to Dartmoor. When Gina was too busy with the guest house at Cleave House I would offer my help.

Sadly mother died in 1911 and William soon after in 1912. I always saved the memorial cards, a real source of remembrance when I lived away. Of course, you always knew bad news was coming when one of those letters arrived in an envelope with a black edge.

William was buried in the Sticklepath Burying Ground. We always call it the Quaker Burying Ground though it had been ecumenical for 100 years by then. Hidden down behind the Finch Foundry, it is a peaceful place where you can sit and contemplate the world with the gentle gurgling of the river Taw in the background.

A rough hewn granite headstone, really suited him. Boasting of course of his Crimean adventures.

Shortly after William died, of course, I lost his war pension. Having no source of income, I found a house-keeping position down in Cornwall – Tywardreath, near Parr. So that’s where I married the second time…

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