My life across 7 UK Censuses

Following the great example of @JanetFew #Census2021, I have put together a potted history…

23 April 1961

I had been called ‘Pickle’ for almost 6 weeks, then Mum lost the birth certificate on the way home from the Registrar, but by 23rd of April I had had almost a week to get used to being called Helen.  I was born in Okehampton Hospital and lived at Cleave House, Sticklepath, Devon. (No TV and no thoughts of #OnePlaceStudies or #OnePlaceWomen then!)

Ann Bowden, proud Mum and Baby Helen, christening day 1961

25 April 1971

At about this time I went to the ex-headteacher of Sticklepath County Primary School to learn to write essays about Henry VIII and Florence Nightingale, in order to pass the entrance exam for Edgehill College, a girls only Methodist boarding school in Bideford.  I was in Belvoir House, the youngest and probably smallest girl in my year. I think we had a tiny black and white TV. No credit or debit cards, microwaves, mobile phones or computers.

Edgehill uniform. In need of a comb!

5 April 1981

A pompous pathologist in Exeter had said I couldn’t do his job because I would have to be a doctor first – hence I found myself at Bristol University medical school. I was almost ready to be let loose on the unsuspecting public as a clinical medical student by April 1981. Though I wasn’t a very good student, far too many other things to be doing, so I had to spend that summer doing re-sits.  My address would have been Manor Hall, one of the University Halls of residence. I would have been looking forward to going back to Devon for Easter (April 19th)

21 April 1991

Having married in 1986, by 1991 we had our two daughters.  In April we were in the midst of moving from Powderham Road, Exeter to Demesne Road, Wallington, Surrey.  Mike had moved up to London (St George’s and The Marsden haematology rotation) in February but we needed a house before the rest of us could join him. I was doing locums and about to start GP training in Croydon. We had a brick of a mobile phone but poor reception so it had to be kept on the front window sill when we were on call. We had not long had our first home computer.

Helen and younger daughter who has lost her pony…

29 April 2001

Mike was a consultant and I was a GP in Hull, living in Priory Cottage 14 Northgate Cottingham, beside a level-crossing.  The girls were at Beverley High School for girls.  Lots of ‘taxi-ing’ girls to netball and orchestras. The following decade saw us taking a small number of holidays abroad – a fairly new venture for us.

27 March 2011

After a short stay in Shrewsbury we left the UK for 2 years, from October 2010- October 2012, as VSO volunteer doctors in Malawi, one of the poorest countries in the world.  So we missed this census completely.  I was working in palliative care, helping to teach people how to use morphine medicine safely and treating Kaposi’s sarcoma (HIV related cancer). We had a brief holiday in Egypt around census time.  I still have no idea about emoji’s but we could sometimes Skype. The majority of Malawians have no electricity, and we all have ‘power sharing’ ie regular power cuts as there is not enough to go around. We do have a small fridge but no washing machine. The chicken was a gift from a patient!

Dennis our gardener highly amused by Helen’s Chicken

21 March 2021

After some years in Gloucester (again Mike as haematologist and myself as a GP), living in the midst of the beautiful ancient beech woods of Cranham, we retired at the end of 2019. We moved up to York to live with our older daughter and grandson just before lockdown began in 2020. Now we have all moved to a small village North of York. I started my Sticklepath One-Place study, set up my first website and wrote my first blog posts 6 months ago. Due to Covid restrictions my 60th birthday was celebrated with a Zoom murder mystery (with a Bake Off theme!) after chicken and chips (reminding me of Malawi but cooked in an air fryer so very healthy!) Not quite what we had planned but memorable! Sunny weather today hopefully means spring is here to stay 🙂 and there is a plan to come out of lockdown…

Mike and I Census day 2021

#CensusDayPhoto

#52Ancestors : Name’s the Same -Jessie Finch

#Sticklepath, #OnePlaceWomen (x2!), #OnePlaceStudies, #Finch.

Week 10 of Amy Johnson Crow’s challenge to write something about an ancestor each week (OK for you keen-eyed I have got a bit out of order!)

Jessie Finch was born on 3 December 1860, to George and Rebecca Finch (mother’s maiden name White), George was 26y and Rebecca 36y. She was baptised in Okehampton Wesleyan Methodist on 10 December 1860 (transcript seen on FindMyPast). The birth was registered in Okehampton in January 1861 (Vol 5b p397). She was 4 months old on census night 7 April1861.

Her brother Albany George was born on 28 November 1863 in Sampford Courtenay, Devon, when Jessie was almost 2 years old. In total she had two older brothers and two younger, one older sister and one younger. By 1871 she is a scholar aged 10. In 1881 she is still living with her parents and is a dress maker.

Sadly Jessie died of consumption (TB) in 1886 aged 25 when her niece and namesake little Jessie was almost 1 year old. For some reason two different memorial cards were produced:

Certainly the little verse used suggests she had a fairly difficult time during her illness.

The second Jessie Finch was Albany’s daughter. Born in January 1885 she was the daughter of Mary Trace, Albany’s first wife. I wonder why she was named after her Aunt? Was the Aunt already sick by then? Here is a picture of Jessie Emma Finch (later Barron) with her father Albany and brother. This Jessie led a long and fruitful life much of which was spent in Sticklepath. She died in 1973 aged 88y.

#OnePlaceWomen: Amy Beatrice Prickman

My #OnePlaceWednesday contribution for #OnePlaceStudies at #Sticklepath #SticklepathOne

Thanks to a fellow One-placer I was prompted to search the Red Cross website for the names of Sticklepath volunteers. One of the two found is Amy Beatrice Prickman. That made my ears prick up (sorry!) because I have come across that surname many times before, though not as a resident of Sticklepath. Rather the visiting Coroner who held inquests in the Taw River Hotel or Inn. My aim is to research each resident of Sticklepath from about 1750 to 1970. So I set about finding what I could about Amy Beatrice.

Research shows she was indeed the wife of John Dunning Prickman, Okehampton Solicitor and Coroner of Devon. His second wife in fact, with no children (his first wife Mary Hatton died in childbirth). J.D. will feature in future posts. Here, I will just comment that as a married woman the husband’s income, wealth, and status made a great difference to the opportunities offered to a wife or widow. Amy Beatrice was a woman of considerable wealth following her husband’s death in 1913, demonstrated in her purchase of Tawburn House in Sticklepath. Advertised on Thursday 5th April 1917 in The Western Times (Exeter) as a Stone-Built Detached residence in the occupation of Mrs Mesney, with “3 reception rooms, 7 bedrooms, bathroom and the usual offices, ample out-buildings and large gardens”. We get an update on Friday April 13th 1917:

and when she came to sell her belongings, just 3 years later, it was clearly an amazing auction!

Advertised widely, including in the North Devon Journal – Thursday 22 April 1920 (all newspaper reports accessed via the British Newspaper Archive) For sale on ‘Wednesday next’, 28th April:

TAWBURN HOUSE, STICKLEPATH. CALLAWAY and CO. have been favoured with instructions from Mrs. J. D. Prickman to Sell by Auction, the Valuable FURNISHINGS, including Mahogany Music Canterbury, Arm Chair in Morocco Leather, Chesterfield, Couch Crotonne, Oak Table with Brass Drop Handles, Axminster Carpet, Bookcase, Water Colours, Engravings, Old Oil Paintings, Bronze Candlesticks and Horses, 2 Oriental Jugs, Sideboards, Buyer’s Tray, Handsome Inlaid Sheraton Drawing-room Chair, Antique Stuart Writing Bureau (dated 1662), Oak Linen Press, Beaten Brass Trays, Oak Bookcase, Oak Book Trough, 4 Oak Chairs with Rush Seats. 3-tier Inlaid Walnut Whatnot, Rosewood, Walnut, and other Occasional Tables, Walnut Armchair in Silk Tapestry, Oak Card Table, Wicker and other Arm Chairs, Copper Coal Vase, Iron and Brass Ditto, Oak Hall Chairs,  Carpets, Rugs, Tables, Bedroom Suites, Curtains, Baskets, Bedroom Ware, Dinner Services, very fine Jug by Martin Bros., Antique Doulton Teapot, Venetian Bowl and Vase, Zolnay  Vase, quantity Pattern Dishes, Blue and White Tea Service, Minton Jug, quantity of Cut Glass and other Glass Ware, China, etc quantity old Pewter, including Inkstands, Salvers, Plates, Measures, Mustard Pot, Salt cellars, etc.. Plated Entree Dishes, 5 Pair old Brass Candlesticks, 2 Pair Copper Ditto, Plated  Spirit Stand with Cut Glass Bottles, Inkstand, centrepiece, Plated Fruit Stand, Egg and Toast Rack Silver Inkstand, 2 Plated Butter Dishes. 2 Silver Mounted Decanters, Silver Plated Strawberry and Cream Dish with Doulton Ware Dishes, fine collection  of Books, songs and Music, quantity of Antique and other China, Quantity of garden Tools and Plants, and several other lots. Catalogues. 6d. each. Sale at 12 noon. 

The electors registers says she lived at Burnside not Tawburn but I suspect she perhaps called it by the different name. I am not aware of another house in Sticklepath called Burnside. Unfortunately she only lived in Sticklepath between census recordings. I think it is unlikely she was still there in 1921 though she may have lived in Sticklepath prior to her purchase of Tawburn.

Her life has been researched using records from Ancestry and Findmypast. Amy Beatrice was one of the daughters of Rev William Mutrie Shepherd (b.1832 Abingdon) and Caroline Anne Strange (b 1840 Liverpool). The GRO index confirms her mother’s surname. The Newton Arlosh Parish Register, Cumberland, shows she was baptised 16 Jun 1872. Records including 1939 register confirm her date of birth was 22 May 1872. Aged 8 she was living in St Cuthbert without Harraby, Cumberland, where her father was the vicar of St John’s, Carlisle. She had brothers Cresswell N Shepherd aged 4 and Ernest E Shepherd aged 3 years. She was a student at Carlisle and County High School for girls in 1886. By 1891 she was living with her uncle John Taylor, clergyman in Holy Orders and Schoolmaster Christchurch Parish, Tunbridge Wells, Kent along with Rev Taylor’s wife, 6 daughters, 2 sons and 9 male boarders/scholars. In 1901 she is a ‘Governess’ living at St Barnabas Bexhill, Battle, Sussex, aged 28, teaching school. In 1908 26 November, she was married at Croydon St John, apparently by her own father the assistant curate, to John Dunning Prickman. She was 17 years younger than him. In 1911 they are living at 21 Fore Street, Okehampton, with a cook and female servant from local villages. She was widowed on 13 March 1913.

So we come to the Red Cross records, a record set I had not used before. The work of the Red Cross during World War One included running Auxilary Hospitals for convalescent soldiers and Military hospitals. Auxilary hospitals usually had a commandant, who was in charge of the hospital except for the medical and nursing services,  a matron, who directed the local VADs (Voluntary Aid Detachment volunteers), who were trained in first aid and home nursing, a visiting GP, and a quartermaster, who was responsible for the receipt, custody and issue of articles in the provision store. Mrs A. Beatrice Prickman was quartermaster for the Okehampton VA Hospital from 31st December 1914 to 1st June 1915 on a full time basis. This was based in Dartmoor House Belstone.

In February 1915 the War Office proposed that volunteers could help at Military Royal Army Medical Corps (RAMC) hospitals. These had previously been staffed exclusively by army nurses and orderlies from the RAMC. 

The Okehampton Military Hospital was based in Okehampton and volunteers needed several weeks training and to pass exams as well as practical experience. Mrs A. Beatrice Prickman became an Emergency Nurse at Okehampton Military hospital in April 1916 until November, completing 920 hours as a volunteer in this capacity. It seems likely that a significant amount of the time between these two roles was spent in training.

On census night 1939 she is living in a boarding house in Royal Tunbridge Wells, ‘Private means incapacitated’. We lose track of her then until her death 14 September 1964 and probate 17 November 1964 when her address is given as Rockmount Hotel Ephraim Road, Tunbridge Wells. The value of her estate £374.00.

Many questions arise but remain unanswered.